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it's not a matter of time but mind

"Trust yourself, create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life..."

This afternoon, I'm on my me time, enjoying my time just to be alone...
I've been busy today and I need a time for myself to be relaxed...




I have just read this sentence and things come to mind that this life is really simple as long as we really know what to do by trusting ourselves, being confident of what to choose and decide as this is our life not anybody else's...

We do not have to be anybody but we have to learn from everybody's life, of course nobody's perfect and surely we will never be perfect but we can do better, not better than anybody else but better than we were or we did...

This is my life, this is my chance to be better than I were or I did...
I am blessed, we are blessed of today's life, hopefully we can be the kind of selves that can be always happy to live with all our life...

Happiness is not about waiting for something we really want it happens, but happiness is when we know how to feel it, the feeling of peacefulness being ourselves, the feeling of trusting ourselves, the feeling of appreciating ourselves by doing something we like to do responsibly. It doesn't mean to do whatever we like but of course we have to be ourselves and respect others for always.

Yes, respect others!
This is a positive attitude of being a trusted self, when we respect others, we will be also respected by others, at least by respecting others, we respect ourselves not to do the rubbish things...

Here I want to remind myself not to wait for happiness...
Just go this way, enjoy the life, thankfully and simply...
Do not think hard for the perfectness of everything, it's completely a waste of time...

Life will be as beautiful as how you manage your mind, your beautiful mind...
How I really have to be thankful to God for everything I have...
How we really have to be thankful to God for everything we have now...

Best regards :)

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